Denise and her blog

Published : 12/10/2026

Aromatherapy In Midwifery: Dangerous Practices That Threaten Forty Years Of My Work. 

Midwives in many birth centres offer essential oils with massage to ease anxiety and stress, for pain relief or as part of a “postdates pregnancy” service. Those of you who follow Expectancy know that I have long advocated for the use of aromatherapy and other complementary therapies (CTs) within midwifery practice and education, having pioneered the subject specialism since the early 1980s. 

However, when I hear of what is now happening in maternity units and birth centres where aromatherapy is offered, I despair. The practice of many midwives offering aromatherapy is so poorly informed as to be dangerous and sometimes, even illegal. Poor practice leads to an inherent risk of incidents that may threaten the wellbeing of parents, babies, staff and visitors and lead to ethical and legal dilemmas. At a time when maternity care and midwifery practice are under immense scrutiny from national investigations such as Ockenden reviews, to the public media baying for the demise of midwifery with its alleged normal birth “ideology”, it is foolish in the extreme to initiate care strategies that are unsafe.

I have spent 46 years of my 51-year career in midwifery education. I trained in several CTs, developed and ran a degree in CTs at the University of Greenwich and established a specialist CTs teaching clinic in southeast London, treating almost 6000 pregnant women over ten years. Since 2004 when I established Expectancy, unique worldwide in offering specific CTs courses for midwives, I have taught over 4000 midwives around the world, including helping to implement aromatherapy in many UK and overseas maternity units. I have taught, practised, researched and published on midwifery CTs, my Masters degree was on the safety of aromatherapy in pregnancy and – I hate to blow my own trumpet – I am an acknowledged authority on the subject. In short, I know what I am doing.

My philosophy has always focused on “safety, professional accountability and evidence-based practice”, which has added to my credibility and international reputation. It distresses me that, in the NHS, safety and accountability are relegated to the bottom of the pile when it comes to training, not only in aromatherapy but in other aspects of midwifery. Midwifery managers are complicit in this, trying to save money, but at the expense of a well-informed workforce able to practise safely. They seek out the cheapest, shortest, least inconvenient means of training up as many staff as possible, sometimes by cascade training after sending one midwife on a course who is then – apparently – capable of teaching everyone else. Unfortunately, in the common vernacular. if you pay peanuts, you get monkeys.  

When it comes to aromatherapy, there are added issues, because it is viewed simply as “nice smells” and a bit of massage. It is not a statutorily regulated profession, so midwives somewhat arrogantly presume there is little to be learned: training is frequently focused on level four practical skills rather than the in-depth theoretical underpinning and critical thinking required at academic level six. In an attempt to develop relaxing birthing rooms, midwives use oils  for environmental fragrancing, with no understanding of the pharmacological effects of inhaling the chemical vapours and no recognition of the illegality of diffusers within NHS settings (Health & Safety at Work act 1974, Control of Substances Hazardous to Health regulations 2002).

A lovely training day “throwing a few oils around” and enjoying giving and receiving massage to prepare midwives to offer aromatherapy may be fun but is not sufficient training for safe, effective midwifery practice. Exploring just half a dozen or so oils and advocating single pre-prepared oil blends for labour symptoms is insufficient to individualise care and offer choice, nor to avoid those aromas which may be disliked and, more importantly, contraindicated with specific conditions or in specific circumstances. Encouraging the use of diffusers is reprehensible and dangerous: they have no place at all in a birth centre and certainly not in a high risk labour ward, triage or antenatal ward where, by definition, there may be expectant or labouring parents for whom aromatherapy is contraindicated.  

Midwives MUST understand the principles of aromatherapy and the application to midwifery practice. They must be able to justify their actions, knowing when it is acceptable for someone to receive aromatherapy and when it is not. They must take account of their own wellbeing as well as that of others (NMC Code 2018). They must be cognisant of the law, in relation to storage of chemical substances (COSHH), providing parents with blends for home use (Cosmetics Regulations 2020), restrictions on group settings such as birth preparation classes and even recognising that, when a midwife is in attendance at a home birth where aromatherapy is in use, that dwelling is the midwife’s place of work, with its relevant requirements.

Managers need to have a modicum of understanding of these wider aspects of institutional aromatherapy use, both so they can monitor the practice of their staff but also to limit hazards from vapours in the birth centre or maternity unit. Clinical guidelines should NOT be written by a consultant midwife with no knowledge of aromatherapy, but in conjunction with midwives who have contemporary understanding of using aromatherapy within midwifery and within institutional settings. It is fair to say that aromatherapy guidelines in some NHS trusts are worse than useless and would not stand up in a court of law. Even subsidiary aspects of aromatherapy provision may have relevance, for example, playing relaxing music without a licence, even on the radio, may be contravening copyright law. There have been some legal issues around the use of midwifery aromatherapy for many years, such as midwives trying to use aromatherapy to deal with deviations from physiological progress in labour. There has been, to my knowledge, at least one court case some years ago, in which a baby was severely affected by a delay in transfer from home to hospital whilst aromatherapy treatment was administered.

I find myself wondering if it is time to pack my bags and just leave everyone to their enthusiastic but misguided and ill-informed use of maternity aromatherapy. I feel as if we have come full circle from the early 1980s when I spent my time advocating for CTs, notably aromatherapy, to now when I spend more of my time telling midwives what they should not be doing. After almost half a century of trying to educate midwives about not only the benefits and joys of aromatherapy but also the risks of inappropriate use, have I done enough – or is everyone else undoing the work I have spent my professional life doing? Aromatherapy in midwifery is an accident waiting to happen and unless midwives and managers address the issues around suitable training and safe practice, we are on a pathway to losing aromatherapy altogether. The NMC, Ockenden, the courts and the press, already challenging some aspects of aromatherapy, will be down on the midwifery profession like a ton of bricks – and midwives will have only themselves to blame.

 


Published : 18/09/2026

Driving Forwards - Transition From Student To Midwife 

Congratulations to all our newly qualified midwives!

You did it! After all the effort, stress and challenges you may have experienced along the way, you should be proud of yourselves. Some of you may have been lucky enough to find a midwifery post; others may still be waiting for that elusive job – but you ARE now a midwife.

The transition from student to midwife is exciting even though it can be nerve wracking. I well remember how I felt when I stepped on to the labour ward the day after qualifying – proud yet nervous, frightened even. You have a different role, a different title and colleagues view you differently. There are greater responsibilities, greater challenges and greater fears now the buck stops with you. And yet, there can be awe-inspiring moments of emotion, success and knowing you are doing the right thing.   

Stepping over that line from student to midwife is a bit like driving a car. You’ve passed your test and have the certificate allowing you to practice. But now you have to really learn to drive: to consolidate your learning to increase your confidence and competence in midwifery. You know how to drive but you now need to be able to drive safely without thinking about it; you can then concentrate on becoming confident at driving in the dark, looking for directions and dodging all the other cars on the road. 

For NQMs, this means first consolidating your basic skills and knowledge and then learning to add in the other aspects that contribute to becoming a wonderful, caring, compassionate, confident midwife whilst still adhering to the “rules of the road” in terms of safety, such as the NMC Code and local clinical guidelines.

If you feel more senior midwives are ignoring or bullying you, think of them as road users who push cars around and endanger others with their fast, aggressive or incompetent driving. 

If you are overwhelmed by all the rules and regulations, local and national guidelines and institutional requirements, learn your “highway code” – the NMC Code is your friend, not your enemy – but don’t be prepared to challenge the system if you think something is incorrect, unsafe or inappropriate.

It is absolutely normal to feel anxious, overwhelmed, lacking in confidence and fearful of doing something wrong. Every single midwife before you has felt like this as they step over the threshold into their midwifery career – and those who tell you otherwise are hiding the truth. So how can you help yourself and others to deal with this transition phase?

 

Tips to cope as a NQM:

  • Review each day – think about what you have learned today and what caused you difficulty; identify at least one success from the day – such as a thank you from the parents or a student whose questions you were able to answer. Value the small things and don’t get put off by those issues that seem insurmountable – they are not.
  • Don’t beat yourself up when things don’t go right or feel difficult – if you miscalculated a woman’s cervical dilatation on VE, it doesn’t matter, there’ll be others from which you can improve your skill.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help or for someone to explain something – even if you feel silly or embarrassed; this could be a midwife who you get on well with or an obstetrician
  • Don’t feel intimidated – remember ALL midwives and doctors have been in your position – some may have forgotten what it felt like, but be prepared to stand up and ask or challenge those more experienced
  • Keep a diary about how you feel each day – you will be surprised when you look back after a few weeks or months how differently you feel.  
  • Find someone you can confide in – a midwife you trust, another NQM or a friend unconnected to midwifery
  • Make sure you have at least one day where you do something for YOU – not just family commitments, shopping or sleeping – go for a nice walk or swimming, have coffee with a friend, treat yourself to a spa treatment
  • if things really challenge you, learn self-hypnosis or, in extreme cases, seek counselling – but remember, prevention is better than cure, so try not to let your sense of inadequacy, anxiety or demoralisation get out of hand – deal with it earlier rather than later 
  • Most of all - believe in yourself! You have spent over three years working towards your goal of becoming a midwife; you have passed the exams, you’ve got the certificate – and you CAN do this.


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    We’re offering a six-month ten-day online Certificate in Midwifery Complementary Therapies, specifically for NQMs and senior students at almost 60% reduction on the normal price! You’ll study several complementary therapies relevant to midwifery: aromatherapy, self-hypnosis, moxibustion, acupressure for postdates pregnancy, natural remedies and more. There are five set study days and five option online study days plus optional extra monthly webinars, self-hypnosis and relaxation sessions and access to our online members’ resource site of articles, videos etc.  £1250 including VAT (normally £2964) - £250 non-returnable deposit to be paid by 31st December 2026 plus ten payments of £100 per month. 10% surcharge for payments from a non-UK bank account.     Why not ask for the fees as a Christmas present?!


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Aromatherapy In Midwifery: Dangerous Practices That Threaten Forty Years Of My Work. 

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